Like others have been saying, you are an exciting and stunningly beautiful woman any more would want. I know right now you are hurting, but in time you will get over it and out there somewhere there is someone for you who will be faithful and true. I love all your movies and think you are extremely talented. You have my sympathy and my thoughts are with you. Stay strong.

Denise

You are one of my favorite people – Yeah I was disappointed when you did not come to Sitka where the theme of the movie “The Proposal” was held because I was so looking forward to having that experience. I do not know Jesse from Adam but I do remember him on a celebrity show with some person named Trump (my hubby watches that show I normally don’t). Anyway Joan Rivers was also on it along with other people.

There was a question asked to Jesse about you (and that is the first time I knew who your hubby was ROFL). Jesse said something to the effect that “his marriage was private and to be respected.” When he said that, I respected him for not taking advantage of being married to someone as famous and special to you.

Now, with all the news stories, he could have said that because he felt guilty by what he knew he had done to you. But when I first heard that respect and appreciation of you, I respected him and his holding firm to the fact that you do have private lives.

You are not the first person to have this problem that is in the media now. But because you are who you are, you are now under a microscope. You knew who Jesse was when you married him and there truly is something in him that you truly love (if you are the person who I think you are – its sometimes hard to get a real feel for a person when you only know them on the screen).

Try to keep your decisions private and deal with this problem as every Joe and Jane American has had to deal with it. The final decisions have to come from you and Jesse and your hearts.

You are an inspiration to so many people. We all have your back through your rough times. There are alot of people that have gone through the same kind of thing you are going through. You are and have always been a role model to me. You need to do what your heart wants. Don’t do what everyone else wants you to do. If you decide to stay with Jesse my thoughts of you will not change. We are all praying for you and know your on a rough path but your heart will lead you the right way. Thanks for always being a good role model.

yes, we have your back. Friends and family, aren’t they just great! Good luck to you, and remember, you are a person, not a object.

Sandra,
You are amazing, beautiful, funny, sweet and you are as cool as the song “whomp there it is”.. If you liked women I would totally ask you out and I would cater to your wants and needs 24/7 for the rest of my life. You are my favorite actress / person in the world.

Love, Megan

I’m not the kind of person who goes on celebrity websites, but I felt the need to send you a message because I feel really sad for you.

I haven’t been cheated on since I was in university, but I do remember the sting of embarrassment and then…. the paralyzing disappointment and sadness. All I can say is I’m sorry – so so sorry!

I’m excited to see you conquer this and come out strong.

All the best.

I’m reading all these messages of support and am truly not surprised! You clearly live your life with dignitiy and integrity. You loved as you should have! Continue to do what you were meant to do! You are an incredible actress and I am sure an even more amazing person. I am sad to hear of what’s happened to you…don’t let it stop you from continuing to love and be strong! Your fans are here! Peace!

I think that you are a wonderful woman and whats his face is blind and crazy. I am here for you. Really. Focus on yourself right now and try to put it all in the past. My dad always says there is nothing you can do with the past except learn from it. so learn form it. If it was less than desirable then don’t let it happen again.

I know I have been in the same spot you are except with reversed roles. A woman broke it for me. It was a long time ago and I don’t feel it anymore but it really had me down for a long time. I used to try too hard and when something did not go right, I blamed myself.

I just want you to know that it is easy to blame yourself so don’t do it. You did not cause this.

You did three very great films in a year and got an Oscar. In one year, you have done more than most ever get to do in a lifetime.

Anyway. Take some time to focus on yourself: Do some humanitarian work if that is what it takes. It does not take long to feel very privileged when hearing about the trials of others. I read an article about what is happening in Burma and I suddenly felt happy to be unemployed.

Dear Sandra,

I hope that you come through this difficult time in your personal life better and stronger than ever before. You’re a super terrific actress and more importantly a beautiful soul. I hope that you are surrounded by good friends that will help you through all of this mess…and I know that you are surrounded by loyal fans who love your works and admire your spirit. Hang in there…this storm will eventually pass.

Hi Sandra
Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and hope you all the best. I was very sorry when I heard the news…I thought..why does this have to happen to such a nice person. I don’t know you but you seem like someone that could/is a good friend. I am an Austinite and a fan of yours! Take care. Stacey

Sandra,

Want you to know that this thing happening in your life is so much bigger than just you. You are representing the female as it fights to gain the respect and dignity that it deserves!! And there is no better role model than you for the job, you have such a great heart and such dignity………so great job, don’t lost heart or how you are because it really important for all women to demand respect and honesty in their relationships.

Hi Sandra,
I’m really far away from you, but I just want to tell you: Take care and be strong! You’re the most beautifull woman I’ve ever seen,and I’ve watched a lot of interviews with you and I must say that you’ve got a beautifull soul! I appreciate all of the movies with you(one of my favourtie is Practical Magic;)). So, take care, you’re a lovely person. I hope you’ll be fine. Kisses from Poland.

Dear Sandy,

I just wanted to say that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope that all goes the way that you desire. Hang in there for this too shall pass.

You are at the TOP of the LIST for Classiest Actresses in the Biz! I applaude you, and all the work you’ve done, both on screen and off. You are Ms. Manners of Hollywood Actresses. I enjoy your work, and my prayers are with you… I’ve never commented on any other personalities site regarding their personal struggle, but felt compelled to seek out this site and write you this note… One of my favorite lines from your character in 28 Days: “You are poetry, Never be Any One Else’s Slogan. ( Or something like that!) Keep your head up… God’s Got your back… You are BEAU-T-FUL, SANDRA!

I wish You best of luck.
You will be in our prayers.

Phil Fleming+
St Marks Episcopal Church

Sandy, I just want to say you are a very special woman & an awesome actress. I’m so sorry for what is going on in your marriage right now & very sorry that you & Jesse are not given the space or respect from the media to let you both work this out between the two of you in private specially since there are children involved. Whatever decision you make is a decision you have to live with, no one else. I wish you the best & you are in my prayers every night. You are loved.

Hi, I’ve been a huge fan from way back in ‘83 when I got to meet you here in seattle when you were filming The Vanishing. I wish you all the best, and hope you get to other side of this thing in fine fashion.

Sandra , I feel for you as I know from experience what the pain is like , however , you complete yourself I have always admired you as a person not a star. You are in my prayers , I wish I was lucky enough to meet you in person ,( if yourever in phx ) hi!hi!. Peace Sandra !

I love you sandra!

I know right now you feel shattered as a wife and as a women. And I also know that no words can dull the pain of a broken heart. Even though I have never met you my husband tells me all the time that my personality is very simular to yours and I think we have watched every movie of yours once, some of them many times.The Blindside was wonderful. I have 5 children (2 are adopted) and this movie touched my heart.I know that even though you were acting in this movie your eyes felt the story. I believe that you could not have played such a role if there wasn’t some of that character inside you. We will pray for God to give you stength and courage during this time in your life. Please be kind to yourself and remember getting past something like this is one day at a time. We look forward to your future work.
Cowtown Fans

You are a woman with so much class its seems unbelievable, fact is you always have been. I know you have friends to help you through this time, I call it a speed bump in your life – shocking – un-nerving and it slows everything down. After you finally pass this time – You will be stronger – wiser – Just don’t let it tear you apart ( I am speaking from experience ) You are a lovely woman and have had and will always have a fan for life!!!
“Keep Smiling”

Sandra, I am appalled and irritated by the paparazzi’s behavior, the snapping of photos of you in the car, the tabloid tales and so on. I am a survivor of a 2000 Portland Height’s invasion burglary. I had to recover from PTSD. This is my prayer written from that perspective. Heavenly Father, I thank you that you are faithful. I thank you that Sandra has come through events in her life fairly unscathed and as a much stronger person. I am thinking of those moments when Sandra was injured as a child multiple times, to when she was mugged as a young woman, a passenger in a plane that crashed into a snow bank, and then as a passenger in a car that got hit head on. All these events could have had a very different or tragic outcome. I thank you that they did not. I know that you will carry Sandra through this storm in her life too. It would be nice if another news story could draw the paparazzi’s attention away from Sandra. When nights can be hard, I pray that Sandra can experience peace and rest. If Sandra is anxious at all, I pray that you reassure her. Surround her with your loving arms. I pray that she will continue to be encouraged by friends and family that she can trust. If Sandra is feeling robbed now of all her joy, I pray that you help her to rediscover joy once again in her life. Sandra, hang in there Lady! I will keep you in daily prayers. Lots of hugs and with love. Cynthia

Sandy,

You are a class act, and you are much deserving of better than this. I don’t know what you saw in him anyway, and now the true colors are showing. I have always found that once this happens, there is no fixing things. I suggest to proceed with your plans of divorce, and don’t look back. To get over the heart break I suggest you take on something that will take all of your time and thoughts. Perhaps something big like write, direct, produce, and act in a movie of your own creation. Let your creative talents flow and consume yourself, and leave all of this behind. I am big fan, my thoughts are with you and I hope you find peace in the troubled waters of life.

I wish I could make everyone shut up and leave you alone.. its not fair, but I love you and so do a million others! Because you are absolutely amazing!!

-Love, Megan

I have never sought to reach out to a celebrity before but I have been through what you are going through and I felt the need to reach out and I have been sending you blessings. I too am in love with a man that people don’t think is right for me- seemingly from different world’s. But the soul and the heart leads. I have raised his children and it is extra horrible when these things happen and you also have the threat of losing the children. It makes the heartbreak bigger and more difficult because it is seemingly impossible to let go of these people you love, which is what society generally promotes. But when it is about real love, growth and consciousness ,which is where the planet needs to be if we want to continue and thrive, there is another way. Souls come together to chip off our rough parts so to speak, the shadow cannot sustain in true love space. In real relationship the other is a mirror for our unhealed spaces, where our shadow side can be seen and released. But we should never judge our self based on what the other does for it is about them. When you can relate in relationship in a conscious way, you can grow deeper roots. But it does take two people willing to do the work. Yes this will forever change you, there is no going backward but that is the purpose of life.