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Jesse James provided an official statement to People Magazine:
The vast majority of the allegations reported are untrue and unfounded. Beyond that, I will not dignify these private matters with any further public comment.
There is only one person to blame for this whole situation, and that is me. It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way.
This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. I am truly very sorry for the grief I have caused them. I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me
EDIT: Guys, I know you all want to support Sandy but comments offensive to Jesse won’t be accepted. We all know Sandy and I’m pretty sure she would not like that. So if you wanna show your support to her, you can comment here, of course, but do not offend Jesse. We still can’t be sure about the whole situation, the press makes everything looks bigger and harder and we should support Sandy, as we always do, but sending her only POSITIVE energies! We can’t decide anything for her. We have to support her no matter what she’ll do. That’s what fans are for! Thank you for understanding!
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Ms. Bullock,
Let me begin by saying I have never been on twitter nor have I ever left a comment on anyone’s blog. I just want to tell you how very sorry I am if these allegations are true. I am admire your heart and soul! Even though I do not know you personally you will be thought of in my prayers for peace and privacy. You have brought laughter and memories into our home on many occasions and I hope just the simple thought that others care will help to keep you strong.
Veronica Rivera, Las Vegas
(36 year old, wife of 15 years, mother of 4 daughters)
Sandra,
WE love you and are with you 100%. What a dog to do that to you with a sleaze bag. He is sleazier than his many tattoos. You deserve someone better. God will send you the real deal. If he is real sincere -I guess forgiving him is a possibility-if not move on. I will be praying for you.
My heart breaks for Sandra. It really explains the slightly somber, uncomfortable and tearful look Jesse had in his eyes while Sandra was singing his praises in front of the world. I wondered why he did not seem more joyful and thankful at these moments. It makes me sick.
Sandra, its a shame that celbrity actresses hook up with celebrity hubands and go through what you are going through. I am a straight cut, normal guy – executive and employed. If things don’t work out, I’ll treat you like the woman you deserve to be. AND I am NOT a celebrity..Normal, down to earth, no tatoo’s! I live about 20 minutes from you.
I am very sorry to hear what has been going on. Sandra doesn’t diserve this at all. I will be praying for you Sandra and your family. You just stay strong and focused on the bright things of life. Don’t let him rob your joy and who you are. I am a big fan have followed you for a long time.. remember the Miss. Congenality 1 and 2 well I wish you could punch your husband out lol like in the movie, but we know that won’t solve anything… who cares though it feels good to let off some steam hahaha. No but really I love you Sandra in a fan kinda way lol
take care and God Bless you and your family.
Chris
I have been a fan of Sandra Bullock or as some know her as Sandy before she was well known and feel for her in this time of embarassment and her pain and it is like a million times worse because of who she is it is broadcast over and over repeatedly slapping her in her face…if it had been me no one would care. She is a beautiful strong woman who will make it no matter what happens and only she can decide to forgive her hubsand.
Jesse And Sandra I hope everybody leaves you guys alone. It’s none of our business what goes on behind closed doors in your Family. I hope everything works out for you two. I just hope it’s not true Jesse, Sandra is a wonderful woman and a fantastic Actress. GoodLuck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your Favorite fan Sherri Littler
she doesn’t deserve it..
we’re here for you, Sandy!!
ALWAYS FOR YOU
WE LOVE YOU!
Hang in there. Sandra. You are the best.
we love tooooooooooooooooo much from your fan from kuwait in middle east if i tell any word there is nothing to relif your pain TIME will solve the problems our heart with you god help you
as we say en shallah khair “don’t hate any bad thing that happen for you ,you don’t know it’s will be useful for your life “
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It is unfortunate that this has happened to this couple. It saddens me to hear of this troubled time for both Sandra and Jesse. I will be praying for both of you. I hope the real lady form the blindside could counsel Sandra. The Lord comforts you Sandra and He loves you and is there for you during this time for both you and Jesse. I know Sandra you are in love with Jesse but are very disappointed in him to say the least. To Jesse you have turned your life around in some areas but the Lord wants you to renounce all areas of your life that are not right. Please both of you look to the Lord above to help you through these difficult times. i do not believe it is a coincidence e that you Sandra were in the movie the “Blind Side” God has put some good people in your path for a reason. Praying for you!
Well personally my opinion i think Sandra is strong enough to get through this, she has a great heart and she always does the right thing. So im guessing and were all hoping she will leave him, at least thats what i would do. Sandra even fought in court for him to take custity of the children and she always thanks him at award shows and says she trusts him. Well….and he goes and does this hurtful thing..
Make the right choice Sandra
I love you girl! <3
I hope this isn’t true…. I love Sandra Bullock… I know I’m not the only one. I heard about this, my heart started to hurt and still does. I just want to hear from Sandra and hope she is okay. She got so many fans and like everyone else people are behind her. I’m not a crazy fan, but if I knew her and was really close to her. I would do anything she needed. She really is my favorable actress. I love Jennifer Aniston too. But, I always love Sandra Bullock more. I’m shock! Sandra Bullock you are love!!!!!
Love, Ashley
I remember being in LA during the filming of the first Speed movie. I saw them filming the subway scene above ground, without the actors in the street. When I finally saw the movie, I knew that Sandra was going to really stand out as a stupendous actress in the future. And then, she modestly accepted that award. Yes, I wished there could have been more than one best actress award given that day, because I know Meryl was good too. But Sandra, you worked so hard and you really deserved that award. Sandra, you are a real lady and a good person. You are two months younger than me and you don’t look 45 and I look already like I am a wrinkled prune.
Hugs, support, good thoughts and love sent your way. Keep your head held high, because you are an amazing lady. Just know that your true fans don’t get caught up in this stuff. We are here for you, no matter what, respecting your privacy and we will continue to send positive thoughts your way.
sandra hold on to the happy moments u so deserve to be happy good luck
I am truely heartbroken. I have always loved Jesse and when I heard they were together I was so happy because of how much I’ve always loved her. I hope they can work through this and ultimately Sandy finds the peace and happiness she so deserves. She’s amazing!
My mom and I support you with prayers and love. You are a wonderful woman, and we hope only the best for you!
do what you need to do, Sandra. you’ve got a good head on your shoulders. and most of us have been where you are now. love you
Hi Sandra im from india i see all ur movies bcoz they are soooooooo exceptional i usually do not comment on anything but …….this ur husband hving an affair ……..especially u loving him tht much really made to me comment …………….one thing i do not understand ………y men enter into a commitment and never stand upto tht .?……….y thy easily get distracted by the other women..?……..which shows the lack of their sincerity i do not call tht as a LOVE ……….i think this world is loosing its MORAL VALUES. My comments are for those guys who keep affairs. All the best for ur future.
It is very easy to say SORRY for MEN, i do not think MEN never understand what THE LOVE IS.
Hi Sandra,
I really feel for you…whatever is true or not….I hope you find out the whole truth ….if it is what it appears to be well it is a hard thing to get over, I know I have been there and lived to tell the tale…lol…but seriously I wish u all the best , you are a great actress and I’m sure a great person…
Good Luck in moving on with your life and being happy
we have your back Sandy, Always!
Hi Sandy,
It is so pitiable even normal woman.I greatly sympathize and would like to share your situation.It is not easy to accept the truth and bring a lucid decision out.
But don’t forget that is our life with many tastes.Nobody is perfect,and everyone has at least a mistake in human life.And he(she) needs to be forgiven to improve.
I think you should listen his reason and his feeling,also his thinking right now.
Give him toleration for you,for your daughter and your family.
Hope that happy days will come to you again soon.
P.S: don’t let that bad girl benefit by your achievements.
Lisa
Sandra, be strong. Don´t let the world things (bad people, bad situation, bad thougths) spoil your sense. Be the best actress, best human being, best friend, best woman, best, best, best every thing…
Hi Sandra, I’m your brazilian fan, I call dirla. A message for you. Delivery all in the hands of the Lord.
Let it work in your life and desncansa your heart in the Lord. You are very talented and loved by God
Love you in Christ. Deliver your problems in the hands of our God.
Success
Dirla
Sorry for misspelled words. I do not speak English. use a translator. I hope this message reaches you. kisses
I just wanted to come and say what ever you choose to do we are all behind you. I saw you on the various award shows and to me you are a warm, caring person. I am sorry you are going through these changes. Why people do the things they do on the man in the sky knows why.
Take care and know you have alot of fans out there who are behind you in whatever road you take.
Meryl and Sunshine and Angel Alex
Leave it to me to re read my comments and put a word incorrectly. I meant to write only no on.
A hug to you Sandra.
Sandy,
I just wanted to let you know how very sorry I am for the hard time you’re going through right now. I have been going through some really hard times lately and have come to realize that there is always a silver lining. Something good will come from this and you will be better and stronger for it. Please take care of yourself and know that there are many who feel your pain and wish you well.
Teresa
No escribiré nada triste ya que probablemente a nadie le gusta que le hablen así cuando esta mal…
solo quiero dejar una frase para reflexionar es muy buena y cuando supe lo que paso si es que es verdad
dije bueno no es la persona correcta para ella
la frase dice mas o menos así:
”Cada fracaso supone un capitulo mas de en la historia de nuestras vidas y una lección que nos ayuda que nos ayuda a crecer. No te dejes desanimar por los fracasos. Aprende de ellos, y sigue adelante.”
En dos palabras puedo resumir cuanto he aprendido acerca de la vida:
Sigue Adelante
Annie
Chile
Sandra,
I am brazilian, from Rio de Janeiro and only last friday The Blind Side shows at the theater. Congratulations to everybody. It is a beautiful film. You deserve The Oscar and much more. All of your fans are praying for your best and God usually listen our prayers.
Remember the reason of you have a family that many times you repeat that God send to you. Take easy and dont let this ugly people and this ugly world spoiled it.
Besides what ever you decide to do, do with your heart and faith, you have a lot of fans wish you the best.
Dear Sandra,
You may not read this for a long time, but my hope is that someday you will. I’m sure that your are feeling like the bottom of your world has dropped out from beneath your feet and that there is a hole in the middle of your chest where your heart should be. Unfortunately I’ve felt these exact same emotions. I thought I would never, ever be whole again and be able to trust anyone, let alone a man. But as karma would have it, I look back, some some 23 years ago and can hardly believe how my life has changed for the better because of a betrayal by my then husband. If that pivotal event had not happened I would never be where I am today. Be careful with your heart, as I’m sure you know, it is the most precious commodity you have. My hope for you is that you do find that someone you can trust and love again. Your present husband ,hopefully will become a better person for just having be allowed to be in your life. I want to personally thank you for your many wonderful films and my hope is that you continue to shine brilliantly ,you never needed an oscar to validate the caliber of your talent! P.S. Remember its not the destination in life but the journey getting there. With much love and support,
C in the FDNY
Dear Sandra,
just wanted to say how very sad I am for you at this time dealing with all the
rumors.I pray they are unfounded,I find it so sad to think how madly in love you are/were.Time is a great healer,and I know you will pull through all this and move on with your life.Only you can make the decision,I just pray you make the right one for you.You are one AWESOME woman,actor, and wish you all the best,and may god be with you always.
Sincerely
Dinah
I hope this note finds its way to you. Take time for yourself now. Decide what is best for you and most importantly follow your heart no matter where it leads you. Trust that you know what is right for you better than anyone else. Goodd luck to you. You will be in many peoples thoughts and prayers.
Sandra,
I wish you peace, and love and strength, i know right now you feel like your whole world is falling apart, and can’t believe what happened and that you have no control, and please don’t blame yourself because you did nothing wrong!!!! Jesse made a mistake, and i believe he truely loves and cherishes you, and people make mistakes, horrible mistakes, but God gave us a heart and a soul to learn to forgive and to love til the end.. When i see pictures of you and Jesse, just the way he looks at you, you can see the admiration and love he feels for you!! I cant say why people cheat, and why they always think with their other body parts, but sad to say many do and so many marriages are ruined by this, and it is sad that people will give up so fast without trying to fix it… Sandra i think you are a beauitful person inside and out and i wish you the best!! May God bless you and give you strength to help you with this troubling sitituation…
love and respect Michelle
Dear Sandra,
It seems in the world you work in this happens so much and not to say it does not happen in the simple life I walk in. BUT, I know in the world you walk in you and others don’t mix with the simple life of people like myself. ALSO, I have had two wifes who cheated on me and I did not cheaton them nor have I ever cheated on any woman! I think it is the worst thing you can do to another person/mate. You are so smart, one of the prettiest women in the field you work in, and seem to have a heart of gold and very down to earth. It is to bad the two worlds can seem to never meet between the world you actors walk in and the simple world in which people like me walk in. For I totally in my heart believe you would find the most honest and loyal mate from the simpleir world of people. I know if I had such a woman like you at my side I would be the dumbest person in the world to not be faithful! It seems to be odd to me for I speak always the truth and hoest and faithful type of person yet I do not have a good woman at my side and I will be 58 this year. Maybe somedy, I hope!
So, I wish you peace, and love and strength, i know right now you feel like your whole world is falling apart, and can’t believe what happened and that you have no control, and please don’t blame yourself because you did nothing wrong! Jesse made a mistake, and in time I know you will make the right choice on to forgive him or deside that is not in your heart and have to move on. It is your choice and know one elses and you will be loved and respected what ever your choice is! God Bless you and keep making the great movies with a message for us all.
In Cherokee Wa-do’
God Bless you again and I will keep you in prayers for support through the hard times.
TerryLee
Sandra..
When I heard the news I was mortified. I truly pray that this story is just a glorified lie. Shame on those who try to hurt great people like yourself & the innocent children you have taken under your wing. I personally struggle trusting others especially men, however I’m keeping the faith that this is repairable. If the accusations are true, I want you to hold on, take your time and never give up on yourself as someone who absolutely deserves 100% loyalty & trust from those who love you. How is it that I don’t know you, but man I’d like to run a muck and give my two cents? We will always be hurt by the ones we love the most!
Denny- Married, mother of 3 girls.
“Nevereze”
God bless you Sandra! Only Jesus can heal your broken hart…. Trust in him and he will turn your sorrows into your victory. There is nothing anyone can say right now that will change how you feel. I know that time heals even though, it seems impossible at this point. Gosh I am really sorry that you didn’t have enough time to enjoy your Oscar win! My heart pains for you, you really are going to be in my prayers. I don’t know what to say….just keep your chin up and who knows these allegations might just turn out to be simply false. I hope that for you Sandra! You are in my prayers.
Good Bless you and your family.
M.I.
Sandra:
Just briefly, I’m so sorry this is happening to you. I’m sorry when it happens to anyone. It’s just not so public for everyone. I’m sure you have friends and support around you.
I can only say this – when we project into the future it makes us very aggitated. We only have today and the tasks at hand for today. As you deal with greif and all the emotions that make sense to you, know that you are only dealing with them today. It’s a little less to bite off then thinking about what will come next week, or the week after.
Again, I am sorry this has to be so public.
You are in my thoughts,
Shawn Schepps
Dear Sandra:
I was married for 32 and a half years to my high school sweetheart. He cheated on me with a woman we both went to high school with. We had a great marriage up until that point, we had our ups and downs, but we were four years from retirement and financial security, but temptation stepped in and I will not live with a liar and a cheat. Suffice it to say, I lost 50 lbs. and went through a traumatic divorce. However, I made it through with the help of my friends and my church. You can do it too. A friend who will listen to you, one you can trust is imperative in your situation. I have three great kids, one of whom is a minister of music in Georgia and the other two are two great daughters. You deserve a man who will love you and not cheat. Don’t settle for anything less – I am still looking for mine!
You are a beautiful lady and the love you have for his children is very obvious. Keep your relationship with the children if you can – they sound like they need a stable influence in their lives. You are the best, Sandra. My heart breaks for you, I feel your pain. God bless you and please write back if you want a sympathetic ear from someone who knows where you are in your pain.
Judy
I bumped into Sandra several years ago in Charleston SC at a dvd/cd/book store. She was so nice. I think Jesse was so blessed to have her and now I think he has screwed everything up. Shes a great person and doesn’t deserve this.
As a regular “Jane”, these things happen to us too. They don’t hurt any more or any less. We tend to do the knee jerk reactionary thing and turn and run. Sandra, you are made of so much more than that! By your own admission, you loved Jesse more than anything. The fact that he broke the trust you had in him is devastating, I know, but the love just doesn’t go away. You have been humiliated, and are the subject of many a conversation. But you, my dear lady, have done nothing to be ashamed of, and if you choose to stay with Jesse, you have no one else to answer to but yourself. You know in your heart if you have the strength to see this through. The man has fallen from grace, and you alone have the power to forgive. Is it worth the effort? Only you know the answer to that. I am certain you will do the right thing for you. You are in my prayers.
Sandra you are much of a lady and we know that time will heal your sweet heart. Only time!!! America knows you gave all your heart. Remember now that you know do not cast your pearl before swine.
Sandra you are a wonderful person you have done not one thing to have your heart broken. If the allegations are true his time will come and I promise you he will reap what he sowed. It was not a mistake it was his choice. Don’t give up on your marriage, but just know that you can’t make someone love you, all you can do is love and lady you have alot of love it shows. My prayer goes out to you and the children. don’t let this take away your spirit you are a wonderful actress,and have brought happiness in my home.
My deepest sympathies go out to Sandra. I have been there myself. To lose that trust that was once the basis of everything that made a relationship so solid. I hope she finds the courage to get through this with the style and grace that she has shown so much in the past.
I am throughly disgusted with the magazines. Namely in this case In Touch. When it comes to matters of the heart, the special, private realtionship held between a husband and a wife, the tabloids and press need to stay out of it!! Just because people are talented and do well for themselves does not mean they lose there rights as human beings to be treated decently and fairly. This affair was none of our business. Now you cannot escape the media frenzy that this has caused. I do not purchase those magazines or watch entertainment television because I do not like the media circus. I just found out about this today when I was watching the local news. I just feel so horrible for what this wonderful woman is going through.
And to that woman, the one who is the center of all of this. In today’s media age the excuse “I didn’t know he was still married” is not valid. You knew he was married yet you did not care. This is the problem with the women involved in the Tiger Woods case and the same with this tramp. Woman should hold themselves to a higher standard and quit using sex to get their way. This may have made you popular for the next 15 minutes but I hope Sandra has a ring side seat when you meet your maker!!
dear sandy,
iam so so sorry sweet pea that something like this has happen to you.. if i could id hold him down for ya and you could knock the crap out of him..i know i got my own issues ..but men are men and there so hard to trust but i want to.. anyways do what you gotta do for you ..plz know you are so LOVED no judgement just take care of yourself xoxoxoxoxoxox you truly are a wonderful desireable loviley lady
sandy im also praying for you to
omgg!
i dont have a clue what im doing lmaoo. im 15 and dont have a clue how to work this but omgg i loveee sandraa bullock so much! she is sooooo stunning and an amazing actress and i no all the words to her films. i want to be just like her when i am older and i think one day she should come to englandd. i would payy as much money i had just to meet her. she is my top idol. ILOVEYOUU and stick in there sandy. you have all your fans behind you in everything. i wish one day i would meet youu. your just so amazing!!! xxxxxx
Where do I begin….big fan since I saw Speed. Also big fan of Jesse James, but very disappointed. When I found out you 2 hooked up, I could’nt hate on you because your a beautiful woman inside and out. You have this fame yet you still seem so normal and humble. I’am also married but I have not experienced what you are and it’s the biggest fear in my marriage. I dont understand why men do this. It angers and frustrates me. Why is’nt there a happily ever after? Sandra I wish you the best of luck, I hope you make the right choice for yourself, and I’m sure your around friends and family who are supporting you and love you, I know us, your fans, support and love you.
Dear Ms. Bullock
There are no words that would make any of this feel better for you. What disappoints me about all of this, is that this happened at a time when you should be celebrating your highest accomplishment in your field.
It saddens me that someone who probably feels betrayed in her own right had to reveal her indiscretion at this point. Her confession doesn’t only hurt Jesse, it causes you so much pain. What I question is the real reason as to why she did it now.
I wanted to send this note to you so you know that there are so many people across the universe who are thinking about you and hope the best for you.
I had seen all your acceptance speeches and I saw how much you loved your husband and looking at him I felt he felt the same, I would never had thought this would have transpired.
Though no one knows what happens behind closed doors or what a couple agrees to when they are not with each other. That is the business of the couple. Unfortunately, when someone is famous, it seems that these people’s lives become public knowledge with all the network and paper tabloids.
From someone who has experienced infidelity, though it does not seem at the time that the pain will end, it lessens over time. I was horribly embarrassed by what happened to me. Time does heal, but a saying doesn’t take away the hurt.
Just know that there are other people out here that would have your back.